so in continuation of tuesday’s blog about sexing on the first date, i figured it would be good to have a discussion on what is appropriate for the first date. it seems as if it’s fairly accurate to say that both men and women are against sex on the first date and that works. if you bang on the first date excellent, and if you don’t, excellent.
but what is ok to do on the first date? let’s take it back to grade school and go through the “bases”:
so here’s the scenario… you and ole boy are sitting next to each other laffing together or doing whatever it is you think is fun. there’s a pause where you look into each other’s eyes. he looks at your lips, you look at his. he leans in and you receive him. the kiss happens. and then there’s a little tongue.
all in all, first base you get some tongue. a little licky licky… a little passion… some chemistry popping off.. nice right? is this ok?
so things don’t stop with just the one kiss. you’ve got some backed up sexual energy due to celibacy or some other reason and he’s just that into you. you’ve now straddled him and there’s kissing and some heavy petting. now there’s heavy breathing, wetness in some areas and growth in others. ladies, this is the point in time where you can *ahem* size him up and see if this is going any where. some clothing comes off, certain “bits” are touched and things are inserted or groped.
do you go this far? and if you reach this point, can you stop yourself from running to home?
you’ve rounded second base and the shirts where left there and as you get to third, mouths replace hands and other objects. some consider this area to be the same as sex. but i don’t think that you can have sex without penetration.
i digress. so how bout this third base? you give each other a taste. is there going back or only going forward to…
which everyone’s already identified as being a no no…
so what’s ok for the first date or is nothing ok? and if it’s ok to start running bases, where do you stop?
this is my time